Every child comes with the message that God is not yet discouraged of man. — Rabindranath Tagore
I’m not a particularly flag-waving American apologist. I am often (especially in the last 8 years) angry at America and many so-called Americans. I DO think America is the greatest place on earth to be, but not for the neo-con, flag-wavin’, gun-totin’, self-righteous, self-important reasons that you get to hear on Fox News all the time…
But there are many ways in which there is a sense of right-and-wrong that we get that some parts of the world just don’t, and it makes these other parts of the world less than us. Now, in all fairness, this sense of right-and-wrong is not particularly American, it’s more “western”, but since America gets to be the standard bearer for “western values” (for better and for worse), I’ll make the leap and say that this is an “American” value.
There are practices that are widespread in Middle Eastern and Central, South and Eastern Asian countries that should keep these countries in the 3rd world. The one I’m upset about right now is the practice of selective sex breeding. In humans. Yes this sounds like a laboratory DNA cloning experiment gone terribly wrong. But in fact, this is willful, voluntary, and encouraged practice in much of the world (especially in the rural, poor & uneducated world). The practice is not for any particular practical reason that I can understand. I’m sure that there are historical, perhaps even evolutionary, reasons for this type of practice, but for now, it’s just because having a son brings more “honor” or “face” to the family. And the women (mothers, grandmothers, etc) are just as much a part of the problem as the men.
The practice is certainly unsustainable. The statistics don’t lie. In some areas of India, there are 150-200 less females born for every 1000 males born. In China in 2000, there were 117 boys born for each 100 girls. Sooner or later, this societal practice will just break. It’s too bad that it will have to wait for this. It’s too bad that people can’t just see that these practices are anti-human, and just should not be tolerated.
I’m not against this because of the fact that many of the females that would have been born are aborted. I’m not against this because I think that all children are to be treasured and adored and blah, blah, blah… I’m against this because I just can’t get past the image of all of these girls growing up knowing that they are unwanted, and that they bring shame to their parents and grandparents just because they are not little boys.
The shame is not on the little girls. The shame is on their parents, grandparents, governments, and societies that allow this to happen. As long as this practice continues (in the open, or hidden away quietly) I hope that these countries continue to suffer in comparison to the “western” world.
NOTE: While there is some history of this phenomenon in America and other western societies, it is NOT equivalent to what goes on today in other parts of the world. And for any places in America or in the West that this practice may continue (fundamentalist Mormon societies, for example), these places and cultures, groups or societies should be condemned and legally, politically, morally and religiously persecuted until they are driven out or the practice is stopped.